Sex Addict?!

[Livin4ME]

no offense taken jarhead.
the reason i'm going up north is to spend time with his family and so they can spend time with the kids. i will be moving across the country once it's final. also, i am leaving next weekend to spend the holidays with my family. i will be gone for over a month.
his family has been completely supportive of me through all of this. in fact, i used to have problems with his mother and sister in particular. and his mom has actually been my shoulder to cry on through all of this. she has been through a similar situation. my family all lives far away, so sometimes phone calls just don't cut it when i need a hug!
they know alot of what is going on, but not everything. yes, i will admit that i have bashed and so have they. they are upset that he is doing this and also that he has cut them off. he has brought this up to me about his mom. and i told him i would not talk to her about it anymore, but he says he understands i need a shoulder and he's ok with it. if that makes any sense!?
he's pulled the whole lawyer thing before through all of this. but then comes back with an excuse not to. i believe he doesn't want it. he says it after he gets mad. a day after saying it, he'll come back and say, 'but what if we do this instead?' he wants his cake and eat it too.
in fact, one thing he said last week that one of the reasons he doesn't want to file is because it doesn't work out with her, he can roll the dice and see if i'll take him back! wtf!?
but anyways, the trip up north. he knows better than to pull anything up there because his whole family will be there. 18 people in a 2 bedroom 3 bath cottage! and it's supposed to snow on thursday! my booty does not get naked in the snow!
i'm going to enjoy my last holiday with his family and so they can spend time with the kids before we leave.