The [censored] hit the fan tonight. I found out that D11 has requested counseling because she is having such a hard time dealing with my ex's new boyfriend. She knows about the OM, but now he is spending the night while the kids are there. Time to pull out the heavy artillery. I have the kids half the time, so she has more than ample time to enjoy her tryst on her own time. D11 said that she feels like a tag along when OM is around. The selfishness has hit an entirely new an unacceptable level. Enough is enough. I left a voice mail with ex that she will encounter legal issues beyond her wildest dreams if OM spends one more night with her while the kids are around.
I also put in a final request for her to let me know what is going on with her medical bill getting turned over to a collection agency in my name. If I don't hear anything by Sunday night, it's small claims court for the ex. I'm all for D'bing, but as has been said many times here before - I won't be a doormat and the kids don't deserve to be treated like an inconvenience.
