thanks guys for your input. i ended up texting him and telling him i would like to talk to him about some stuff that has been said. i told him after the kids have gone to bed, maybe bring over some beers and we can talk. i didn't tell him what it is about tho. he did seem open to the idea. we talk better on text or through iming, but i told him this was a conversation i would like to have in person. he brought up about when we go to up north for thanksgiving. but i told him i didn't want to talk about it with others around and that honestly, i wanted to have fun up there, no serious bs. so i told him, it can wait. it's nothing that would change anything, but i still wanted to talk. i have read DR and i do remember the chapter. i'll have to bring it back out again. and i will definitely check out the other site.
thanks guys
Me - 28
H - 28
S - 2.5 yrs
D - 6 months
1st bomb August 2007
2nd bomb Nov. 2007


Me- 29
X - 30
M - 7.5 years
Final April 2009
S - 2005
D - 2007


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