Your wife is VERY confused. It is so obvious that she still has feelings for you. YOu absolutely can get her back... my wife took me out to lunch on Monday (she paid), we were making out on Monday, she went shopping for me today (I gave her a list) and is taking me on vacation tomorrow to a very nice resort. Does this sound like a guy on the road to divorce???
4 weeks ago she filed for divorce (it is now on hold).
Here is what you need to do...
1. Minimal contact - let her initiate ALL contact. 2. Go out a few nights with your friends and let her know about it. 3. REJECT her - make her think that you no longer want her and u are totally ok with divorce if that is what she wants. Let her know that that is not what you want, but you will respect her decision. 4. Ask for nothing... or ask her to do sh*t for you.
The more I ignore my wife, the more she reaches out to me. I can almost set my watch to it.
The more I talk about reconciliation, the more she wants to run away. She wants control, the more i back off, the more she pursues. Don't feed the beast. Took me awhile to learn this.
It's time to get your b*lls back.
"No one can take away your power.. only you can give it away."
Don't do it.
I took me 4+ weeks to learn this sh*t and it is working. Whenever I slip and talk about "R" she gets whacky. Put the ball in her court.
I was joking with someone the other day and I said that if I want a really great new marriage, when the wife asks me to come home I should tell her to go f herself.
