as far as I know, no drugs. He is military, so he gets randomly tested. But the OW is an ex coke addict. He has increased in alcohol intake in the last 1.5 years. Several times a week and when he binge drinks. I will not have sex with him. I can't risk that. I told him, if he wasn't with someone else, maybe we could help each other out. That's how it was before because I didn't know about her. He doesn't know that I know about the other women he's met online recently. And I won't tell him. He also had arranged to meet someone one night in the time period that we were doing our thing and before I found out about the OW. So he was not only cheating on her with me, but also with another girl.
Me- 29 X - 30 M - 7.5 years Final April 2009 S - 2005 D - 2007
Don't make someone a priority who only makes you an option.
A wise fish once said...Just keep swimming...Just keep swimming!
