lwb.. I cringe everytime someone has a R talk like that with their spouse but it sounds like you needed to set some boundaries. Now is the time to stick to what you discussed with him. Don't let him call your bluff. You're going to have to remain really strong at this point, if you start acting differently than what you said during your conversation, you will lose credibility.

Keep it up! We're all cheering you on!

Hurtin: 32
WAW: 30
D: 8
Bomb: 10/05
Sep: 12/05
Back together 8/07
Bomb (OM): 11/07
Filed for D (me): 12/07