What about his stuff that is at the house? I want it gone but I dont' want him to come around unless I am ready because:
1. I only want him to take the things that are definitely his (eg his pushbike and boxes of papers and things) There are plenty of other things that he is entitled to take but I don't want him to take the computer, for example, without discussion about what I can do to make do until I get a replacement (or set up my work computer to be able to utilise our home broadband instead of logging into work and accessing the internet that way) 2. I want to get a friend to be there with me to calm things down 3. I want to make sure d isn't there 4. As much as it is his house too, it is my home at the moment. I don't have anywhere else to retreat to. I have been threatened by him in my own home already. I have no desire to repeat the process. I want to feel safe and secure where I live. At the moment, I don't feel that because he has full access. I have checked with the police and he has every right to come and go as he pleases.
I want to move on and start living my life. Having his stuff around makes it a bit hard. I have nowhere else to put his stuff at the moment. The shed is full (I emptied storage out months ago because it was costing me $200/mth and transferred all the stuff in storage to the garden shed or threw it out.
