Is he sure you're not having sex with another man?
What I mean is, does he consider y'all exclusive? Or does he know that YOU consider each other exclusive at this time, but that your position does not bind him?
Oh, it's definitely been made clear that we are sexually exclusive. Actually, I would be kind of paranoid to think that he was stepping out sexually because he is almost like Lou in that regard personality-wise. I just knew that he pretty much stood me up on Saturday and he wasn't being very communicative or upfront about why. Anyways, he is being semi-stalked by two of his ex-girlfriends and I guess the one who is the mother of his son drove in from out of state on Saturday so he let her visit with their son and then she tried to get him to have sex with her/take her back but he told me that he told her "Yeah, you can spend the night here. In the driveway." and then he didn't want to call me because he wasn't in a mood he wished for me to experience.
I think that he mostly trusts me but he thinks that I'm hot and he knows that I'm monkey so he's a little iffy about it. For example, we went to see "American Gangster" and he was joking around about how he would have kept the money but then he'd have all sorts of trouble with Swiss bank accounts etc. and I said " I would go to Switzerland and deposit the money for you." and he got tears in his eyes because he was laughing so hard and he said "Yeah, I bet you would but then I'd have to check the plane for any handsome strangers that might end up spending my money."
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
