Usually after he comes (used to be pretty quickly, now seems to take a little TOO long, which he is sensitive about), he will then ask me, do you want me to keep going (for me). I like him inside me, THAT is my favorite part, but he moves differently after he has come and he can still do it, but he's smaller, so what I was feeling a few minutes before is gone. Also, I'm pretty picky in a body kind of way, meaning, I'm usually cold/hot/need a tissue/wanna get him off me, etc. I'm also VERY ticklish and can really only be touched in certain ways. I am much better than I used to be. (He can't seem to remember this, but when we first met, I could barely let him go down on me or touch my breasts or thighs.) I don't know if this is normal, but I also find his body hair REALLY ITCHY!!!! (He recently shaved his chest and privates and they are totally stubbly, so I keep my hand on my stomach or it feels like making love to a Brillo pad. Same with his facial hair. I also think he has horrid breath more often than not and there were times where I was glad it was dark, because I had my face totally screwed up trying to avoid him breathing down on me. I know, not very sexy. We keep gum in a nearby dresser, right next to the lube, but unless I give it to him (which I often do) he NEVER gets it. So, I TRY not to sound like a picky, naggy bi!$#, but if it's bothering me, I feel like I should be able to say something. Obviously, sometimes I don't. I realize how all this can get to be too much for a person to hear, and at times that HAS happened, but we've been together 15 years, so he's kind of used to it as long as I don't let it be the main thing.
So, raise your hand if you think I'm a freak. This all sounds so odd typed out.