My first question is why does she want to have a family Thanksgiving dinner at your house (with all of you), if she is taking the kids somewhere else (BIL's) to celebrate the next day? That confuses me.
Ok, I think your option #3 is the best of the worst, you know what I mean? I am so sorry Mark. I know you are dealing with some depression lately, and its so hard when they pull the rug out from us. We make plans, and they go all floopy on us, and we are left in the dust.......
