How can this type of stuff fail to rip out our WAS's hearts? having families separated on the holidays are awful! How can any human being do this to another? There will be next year.....
You're right my Bro. It's a very sick thing to do to another human being. Just cruel. They have no heart at this point, no heart to rip out. My former WAS, would rather have had a homeless person at her house than to have me. In fact she more or less did at Christmas about four years ago.
But times they do a change! What looks and smells like fresh [censored] today, eventually returns to dust and blows away with the wind, fueling life in a different venue. Change is inevitable my friends, nothing EVER stays the same. Sometimes change is bad, and sometimes change is good, but change it will.
My W changed. It took about 6 years, but she changed. Her heart healed, she grew, and moved on through the crap. We're together again, have been for almost two years, best friends, companions, co-parents and we'll probably be together forever.
You keep hanging in there my friends, fighting the good fight, giving all that you can give, and moving on with YOUR own life. Let go, and rest assured that you are loved beyond your wildest dreams.
God Bless Thanksgiving!
COG
My Story http://www.divorcebusting.com/forum...&Number=660444&page=2#Post660444
What looks and smells like fresh [censored] today, eventually returns to dust and blows away with the wind, fueling life in a different venue. Change is inevitable my friends, nothing EVER stays the same. Sometimes change is bad, and sometimes change is good, but change it will.
