Yeah, I broke down and called her last Fri. Asked about dinner sometime and she agreed to go to dinner sometime. I don't know if DB'ing is having much of an effect on her yet. I thought so before her trip but then she filed for the D after a weekend of female bonding and male bashing. I know it takes time. I'm thinking of doing the DB coaching.

I don't know about the house sitch, might be better to put that decision off until your sitch plays out. Or maybe let him know you're thinking about building and ask him what he thinks. Just talk about doing it sometime in the future.

I used to breed angel fish years ago. I raised jet black veils. Had an aquatic store that would buy every one I had. They were beautiful fish. Haven't seen any angels that looks like what I used to breed in years. They were solid black with tails twice as long as their bodies. Used to have about 25 tanks in the basement.

Today has been a down day for me, too much thinking. Hard to GAL with my recent surgery. I am going to go to the bowling alley to see the guys i bowl with, I'm done for the year for now.

Did you find better ear cleaning solution than what I'm using for my Lab? Will see W on T-day, D24 is doing this year, I can't do it. I always do the turkey, dressing and gravy. Will try to DB while there. I think i might flirt with her. Wink at her from across the room. Told her she looked fantastic Sun, she denied. I think some things I'd done in the past might have effected her self esteem, inadvertantly. I'd like to talk to her on what I could do to better myself. Tried to talk to her best friend, my best friends wife, she doesn't want to get in the middle. I just want to find out what she might think what I can do to help our Sitch. I respect her wish.

Mike

Mike


M 51
W 49
S26 S25
D24 D19
Married 27 yrs
T over 30
S 7/12
D-bomb 9/26