She has given you lots of good information in her response. And you are still running HIGH on emotions. If you can, I would sit on responding to this for 48 hours. In fact, I would continue to detach and let her ask you if you read this, or let her start anymore R talks. In my humble opinion, I think she is doing some deep soul searching and really needs time alone to examine this more.
You need some time by yourself to let the emotions die down or you will become to drained, and exhausted to think straight. Please take care of you and relax and detach. She is feeling pressure still from all sides, not just you. But the more you let go of that, and detach, the more comfortable she will become eventually and she will come to you.
Be good to you B.
Me:49 H:47 S: 16 T:27 M:25 My EA: 2001 His PA: 10/2007, 6/2013 Separated, but H still in house
Find your Shambala: a place of peace and happiness.
