Just checking in. Things with H have been moving along nicely. We've had a few roadblocks that we managed to work through together. H seems much happier. He is pretty much always in a good mood these days. He seems happy to be home with his family. He's affectionate. Just last week, he sent me a TM from Florida thad said, "I love you!"

I have a better handle on the triggers that start us down a bad path. We've come close to moving backwards a few times, but managed to work through it. I pray thta we can continue the positive progress we've been making.

I still think about OW sometimes. I still worry about him contacting her. I don't know if that will ever go away. I don't think he is... at least that's what my gut is telling me. I don't think about her nearly as much as I used to. I try not to let her get in the way of our M.

We are now facing having to put our dog to sleep any day now. That has me quite upset, but it's part of life. That's what I keep telling myself.

So, that's my update... still facing challenges, still working hard on the R... still making progress - one step at a time.


Married 9 years
Kids 5 and 6
Bomb 2006
H back and forth for a year
M now back on track