And about the other guy -- BTDT, except in my sitch, it was a "friend" of my H's. Know exactly how you feel/felt. Got way out of hand and quickly. Allowed me to see how easy it can be.
Me: 38 H: 35 S4, S5, S10 Bomb 01/07 Wanted D - nothing would change his mind Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb Piecing 04/07 Deployed for a year 05/07 Still Piecing 2010 M 11 yrs 05/10