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This morning we got into an "argument" sorta about a cell phone bill that was addressed to me and he opened but was for his phone change in plans. I gave it to him to figure out last night and he returned it to me in the morning. Told me to pay it and he would reimburse me. That annoyed me. I called them to find out what it was exactly. They called him and he wouldn't allow access to his account, then called me and yelled at me. That upset me. So he called at lunch and I told him that I had every right to find out what the charges were on MY account and since they were his he could pay them. Since he has NEVER paid a bill in his life, he didn't know that he could pay on my account. I explained to him he could pay it. He thought I was insulting him because I said he didn't know that. I told him I wasn't, and I said that I was tired of getting calls from him scolding me for stuff. I stood up for myself, something I don't do much. Well, for the hour after that my hands were shaking. I am NOT confrontational.

That book sounds interesting. Problem is with time to read. I have been trying to go through DR again now. I get so many mixed messages from so many sources I am spinning. He is removing some of his stuff already. I cannot imagine I am the only one in that situation. I have been better as of late. But I have my times. I just want to get through Thanksgiving. I still have trouble communicating with him at all. Baby steps, baby steps.