Walk Away Wife - My Sitch

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I don't know how to validate how she feels when it all seems so negative. I don't see any positives in the last email. Where in the DR does it talk about this situation? I skimmed through looking for something, but didn't find it.

I want to apologize to her for anytime that she didn't see my love for her as unconditional. Tell her that I'm sorry that she felt she had to change or be different for me. I don't really know what she means by this though. I want to tell her that I can handle her. That I can and do love her like she wants to be loved. I want to know the real her once she figures it out.

I don't think any of that is following the DB rules though.