I'm sorry that I don't have the time to directly reply to posts at the moment. I've got a lot of work to do and I can only "coffee break" here. Anyways, my general problem with HD "bad boys" is that either they are of the non-loyal variety and so they tend towards f8cking other women or they are of the loyal variety and they tend towards putting you in a cage while they go out to kill things. The bunny has problems with variety #1 and the monkey has problems with variety #2.
Me ------->
<-------- You
(we're not quite meeting up at the same place, it would seem )
Trying a different coordinate system:
What kind of man are you looking for? Forgot "bad boy/good boy"... what kind of actual, specific qualities are you looking for?
HD, good in bed, likes to "throw you down on the bed" sometimes. Ok, we got that. That's the sex part pretty much covered?
Now.... what are you looking for, in a relationship ?
ARE you looking for one? long term, or just short term "have fun"? Or are you really just looking for a monogamous F-buddy?
If long term, what kinds of qualities do you think would help you actually HAVE a long term two-way committed relationship with a guy?
Last edited by Dom R; 11/20/0707:54 PM.
My current status: june 2006. Wife ran out and filed D. Finalized Jan 11, 2010, after 12.5 years M. 3 wonderful sons caught in the middle
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