OUR SITCH.....pray for us

[Lkyguy]

oh GOD please help me....I’m just not good at this...its so hard to be consistent
I don’t know if I should be her friend while she’s turning our family upside-down trying to figure out if she is going to follow through on sep/divorce or how to act....

I tried to add a little mystery & it backfired....
someone called me to speak at a meeting last night so I text WAW that something has come up & I would be going out & she said thanx for letting her know that she would come straight home after work to be with the kids while I was out. after the meeting & On the way home I had been thinking of her going out the night before & not getting home til midnight & my mind right away thinks she is w OM so when I got home I was distant & aloof (not what I should be since that was one of the reasons she was unhappy in our M So this am I text her this
"good morning & sorry about last night I actually had a magical evening out & wanted to thank you for rearranging your schedule so i could go, that was nice of you:)I got some bad news from my dad that shook me a bit(nothing to worry about)I just had a fearful end to the evening & being aloof is the last thing I want to be...hope we can talk tonight or whenever you are free...have a great day"


She got sooooo mad at me & said she was worried about my dad all day...& what she got out of that text was that she is being EXCLUDED from family matters....I apologized & told her the bad news was that someone’s son, in his prayer group, committed suicide because his wife was leaving him (true)....and I didn’t mean to make her feel bad or worry.....I said maybe we can talk tonight & she said in an angry voice that she is going OUT!...I think IM pushing her into the arms of the OM.....IM so despondent...PLEASE help me...what should I do?

I didn’t tell her where i was last night...I was all dressed up & said I had a magical evening think this worried her/got her mad...

anyone? SG? BRIT?