W8ing, just wanted to touch on something Anned said about writing it and not sending it.
This may sound silly, but I've written several and torn them up. I actually feel better after writing them. I don't keep any of the ones I didn't send though.
-------------- The Forlorn Hope:...A picked body of men detached to the front to begin the attack....Fortified, meaning strengthened to stand...and thus, positioned for victory