it would indeed seem like you are drawn to "bad boys", in the more general, NON-sexual common definition of the term. Yet, you arent admitting it.
Maybe MJ is not willing to see it in those terms because I think that definitely gets boiled down to a self-esteem issue. Most strong, intelligent women do not want to think of themselves as having that problem but it very well could be the fact of the matter. MJ certainly stayed in her M with someone who was a bad boy outside the bedroom and so do lots of other people it seems. I think of Heather as another obvious example and zuzu might fit in there as well. Now this is not to say that women who aren't attracted to bad boys Outside the bedroom (I'll put myself in this category) are without self-esteem issues. They probably just manifest differently. But that's another thread. MJ, I think you said you want to break up with this guy because he did something bad outside the bedroom. That's good. That means you are learning and not willing to put up with that behavior.
