Mark,

I don't know if I would go. (you do what you want and feel you should do) but I think the hostility will spill over. Does SMIL already know there is a problem between you two? If so I would call and thanks he for the invitation but with the situation as it is you don't want to make anybody uncomfortable.
You ar the only one that knows how this could turn out but if mt W was as angery as you said yours was I would give the kids a hug and tell then We can do something togeather when you get back.

Husband

Last edited by husband; 11/20/07 07:16 PM.
And if I claim to be a wise man, well
It surely means that I don't know