Dropping the line vs. differentiation

[Dom R]

Seems like there are some things about what you are saying, that dont mesh, MJ.

you seemed to initially be complaining that you turn "nice guys" into "bad boys". and that this is bad.

I purposefully choose to date a "nice boy" but then something really terrible happens which is that I turn the "nice boy" into a "bad boy". So really I am better off just choosing to date "bad boys".

If all you were saying is, "I encourage men to be more sexual, be sexually agressive, etc.", then I wouldnt think that you would have used the word "terrible".

It sounded to me, like there was something about your image of "bad boy", that you dont like... but you [end up with them anyway, so may as well take the best of the worst].

SO I'll ask again: what do you really mean, by "bad boy"?

Maybe you havent thought it through for yourself, which is perhaps why you arent clearly replying to my question?

I think that most people equate "bad boy", with how a guy treats you day to day, not in the bedroom. (or perhaps, how he treats others)
Yet, you have only referenced sex related stuff to explain your use of the term.

Something is disconnected here.
I think it would be helpful for YOU, if you connected the dots.

'cause, based on your most recent pick, it would indeed seem like you are drawn to "bad boys", in the more general, NON-sexual common definition of the term.
Yet, you arent admitting it.

You arent somehow "stuck" with that. You can do something about it... if you first admit that is what is going on with yourself.