After talking to a friend of mine, they stated that my WAW does not want a divorce. They said that if she did want this divorce, she would change the terms and complete my requests to eliminate me as quickly as possible. Interesting observation. Also, WAW has not harassed me about getting my stuff. In fact, nothing has even been moved. I would think she would want my presence removed from her life completely. Another positive I suppose is that she has not mentioned papers since she they were completed 2-3weeks ago. You may recall she cannot file a no fault/irreconcilable differences divorce in my state. In my state, both parties have to agree to this before a judge will look at it. So, I would think if this is what she wants, she would do whatever it took to end things. In effect, give me what I want so she gets what she wants. Perhaps, status quo is not the worst position I can be in.
More time and space for healing. More LRT, GAL, and more personal growth to prepare for days ahead.
