Man, this convo has taken an interesting turn, although we do seem to come back to the nice guy/bad boy topic often (related to the alpha male convo).

I agree Burgbud, I think I would probably do a bit better than Mojo thinks I would do, but then again, I have only been in one LTR (and only one sexual R) and that LTR has been sex starved from the beginning. I really have no idea how I would react to a woman who passionately wanted to see my fantasies realized (and probably at the same time wanted me to realize her fantasies). It could very well send me into some sort of a weird state that would cause me to become unattractive to her. One probability would be that I would go into ultimate nice guy mode (i.e. returning the favor one hundred fold), which would kill attraction very quickly. Another would be that the additional base of confidence would finally allow me to stretch out a bit, shed some of my FOO issues, and become the alpha male I was destined to be. \:\/ The third possibility would be that because I think I am a very open communicator of GOOD things, that I could get into a positive spiral and develop a very strong R from that intimacy. My communication problems are really limited to not being able to express bad feelings well.

Of course, this is really a bit of a non sequitor because I am committed to my current R, even though I am doing a piss poor job fixing it.

Anyway, I need to run to a lunch meeting but as you can imagine this topic caught my eye. I have some thoughts for you Mojo that I feel may be helpful that I will share later. You are right that I think hypothetical single Chrome and hypothetical single Mojo would have a lot of compatibilities. I remember telling you a long time ago that your personality would be appealing to professor types. I'll try to probe a little deeper to see if there is anything useful that can be gleaned from that.

Chrome

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