But I looked at former W and all I felt was indifference. I miss the "family", but not her. Part of me feels sad about that, but part of me does not.
Is that the way I should feel? Somehow it all feels wrong.
Wheter it is right or wrong I cannot say. I can tell you that it's exactly where I am at this point as well. I miss the family, I miss what I had, I miss having "Someone" there with me, someone that I can just talk with. But I don't miss ExW very much if at all. I don't know how that feeling could be wrong. It's how you feel in reaction to what has happened to you. The last thing any of us should do at this point is to start feeling bad or wrong for the feelings we have following the sitch we have been thrown into. We never chose this. Your feelings are what they are. The thing is, either of us could be missing something else.
DonH Midwest Me 56 WAW-EXW 55 Met 11/95 / Married 5/00 Bomb 6/20/05 / She Filed on 6/2/06 / Divorced on 10/9/06 4 who'd qualify as GF since D & dated about 25 women since D
