I'm just wondering if all of a sudden you want what you can't have. You were happy when you had a girlfriend and then what happened?

I think the counselor was right when she said that you both need to want it at the same time. First, you didn't want her AT ALL and now you do, but she has a boyfriend. Do you think you really want her back or is it just that she's unavailable now?

Me: 38
H: 35
S4, S5, S10
Bomb 01/07
Wanted D - nothing would change his mind
Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb
Piecing 04/07
Deployed for a year 05/07
Still Piecing 2010
M 11 yrs 05/10