My Wife wants out..still!!

[dadtotwo]

JM,

Your point is well taken. I will politely disagree that my W wants a sugar daddy. She said last night that she dealt with not being able to answer her own phone, hiding the kids when the bell rang or worrying when she hears a truck if they were coming to repo her car. Plus, having the utility company knock on the door to shut off the power (this is what really happened).

I would not be true to her if I agreed with your assessment. I have an earlier post on this thread that details the financial mess I created. I made some poor choices that did put my family in financial distress but my intentions were in the right place.

There is no excuse for not earning for so long and getting to the point of feeling paralysed and not knowing what to do. My W lost respect for me as a man and she was waiting for me to "step up" which I tried to do but could not get out from under. She endured a long period of stress until she finally gave up.