Just something I've discovered that I'd like to share with everyone. For those of us that are trying to show the WAS that we are different and we have changed, the little things do matter. If you want to portray yourself as happy and confident, not only do you have to show that in your behavior, but you have to be very aware of your body language. If you appear to be happy but your body says otherwise, your S will pick that up and see that. Just the fact that I'm making an effort to be upbeat but at the same time be aware of how I carry myself. Stand up straight and walk with confidence, look ahead and smile at people instead of look down and pretend they are not there. Sitting up straight and no slouching made the W notice. She commented to me over the weekend that she noticed I was sitting tall at the restraunt where we are having dinner and she doesn't recall me being that tall. So they do notice the little changes in you. And that paves the way to make them think and notice the bigger changes that you really want them to see.....
M: 31 W: 31 M: 7 T: 8 S:4 D:2 Bomb dropped: too many to count or remember, 12/17/07 last one S on 9/2/07 W sent off D papers 12/31/07. Me trying to live life and hope she returns one day.
