Back at DB/new marriage new WAW

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Limbo and Brit, thank you for the replies. No Limbo i do not want her coming back for that reason. A close mutual friend of mine the W contacted her last night. He is a youth pastor and very neutral. SHe has alienated herself from people who tell her to work on things, and i was surprised she answered her call knowing he would tell her his goal is to help us work things out. He told me she is scared, hurting and broke down crying 4-5 times over a 30 minute conversation. He also told her people are human mistakes are made and that your husband is a loving forgiving person and would be willing to work things out with you. SHe has canceled some credit cards for our business and i think its just some revengeful actions, but does not concern me too much, whot do you guys think about where things are at right now. I know the holidays will be tough for her as well thanksgiving is in 2 days she will not be with the kids, and probably just visitation for christmas, if it drags out that far.

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