Sounds good to me but i think you should talk to C abiout it and see if it should be worded any different or if you should add more.
Remember the boundries that you set. I wouldn't call him every time you talk or go to the Dr. either. Only when warranted.
You might want to say i will keep you posted on any specifics regaurding our daughter. That way you will not have to contact all of the time. Leave the work to XH to grow up and become more responsible.
JAK
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