I am losing the will to save the sitch after being respectful of my wife through all this and her just dropping that she has letters from the Attorney General stating they are coming to me for child support after she claimed medical insurance for her and the children and food stamps as a seperated wife.
Friend, get a lawyer. She abandoned the family home and took your children from you. It was a non legal involuntary separation on your part. Who is she to "send" the Attorney General to you.
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She said that she would not go for divorce until I had money/regular income and could pay child support. I respected her for that but felt bad that in myself that I could not support the children.
Friend, stop feeling bad that you don't have a job. You'll get one soon enough. The reason she's waiting to divorce you is not out of kindness, but to get as much as she can out of you. She's only thinking though her depression and selfishness. Again, talk to a lawyer.
Regarding jobs...have you considered UPS (United Parcel Service)? They are always hiring and the benefits are good, even for part-timers.
Oh yes, and talk to your church about this. Tell them everything. Ask for help.