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When she asks you to leave ... do not argue, just get out and go dark!



i completely disagree.

I do agree on "give her space when she needs it".

that is not the same as "leave the house"

houndfan, your biggest challege, is to SHOW HER you can be different.

You cant "show her" ANYTHING, if she cant SEE you.
going dark/moving out, does not make sense for you.

LRT is when the spouse is mistreating you, or cheating on you, and you cant deal with it any more.

But the primary problem here, is YOU, not your spouse.
LRT is not right for you.

My current status: june 2006. Wife ran out and filed D.
Finalized Jan 11, 2010, after 12.5 years M.
3 wonderful sons caught in the middle