You are so right, HB that i have no control.
H is still out of town. I have my moments. His phone calls have decreased. I am not sure if he is just too busy or I keep thinking may be he is meeting OW. It is a very far fetch because I would think he is not dumb enough to be seen with OW now. But he has gone a bit cold and distant. we still talk, but no more sweet talks. one side of me say he is just busy, the other side say he knows i am moving with him so now he can meet ow in secret.

Having fantasized on the worst, I have decided to not to act on it. I made my decision to move, now I know about MLC, basically I look at him as being still sick. So unless I can find proof (and I won't snoop), I will assume nothing is going on and continue on my move.


M 38, H 38, two sons
Met 20 years ago
Married 13 years
Bomb: Oct, 2006
DB: Started in Dec, 2006
H moved out for 3 weeks in Mar, 2007
H back home and piecing?