Kilts oh thats a good one...only if your Scottish!
I am not really sure about the time line with the "friend" but I don't think it makes a difference at this point. He doesn't want me, hasn't for a long time and has moved on with his life. Trying to do the same in some ways. Never would have walked out if had just given me some attention. Oh well.
Sorry my spelling is off today.
Me: 30 EX-H: 37 DD: 5 Separated 6/07. MC for months, EX-H quit MC. Divorce Final 8/14/08. Trying to move on with new life.