I tried to send another PM but it won't let me. Forgive me for hijacking this.
Right now I am so exhausted and sick to my stomach. I haven't slept at all and read Tough Love (again) last night. I think I am going to write the letter rather than confront him with this. That way I can stay on track and not let him fire back at me. We are having his whole family here for Thanksgiving. I will wait until after to do that. I don't want to upset my kids once again and have worked my a** off preparing. It will be hard to fake it, but it will give me some time to prepare and ready myself for this as well. I thought once I was done with the letter I will post it here and see if you and others had any changes.
I was foolish through our entire separation and D. I thought that if I was the wife he wanted to come home to he would. He just used that and found he could have both lives.
I know I can do this on my own. I just have to have the guts to step up and stick with it. Knowing him he will give me his defensive, I didn't do anything, I am perfect texts. Then he will get angry with me, etc. This is where it gets hard.
I am going to work on the letter this morning and will post it in my thread in a bit. Thank you so much again. I need a kick in the pants from you and everyone.
Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!
