However, I encourage taking the long view - in my case, I never did this, because I hoped for the day (which is now here) that W and I would be back together. If I had exposed her failings to her family and my family "back in the day", then W and I would both be struggling with a lot more issues and drama today (I can just imagine the fun during the holidays!) Doing so would not have been conducive to my long-term goal of restoring and improving my marriage. Hope you see where I'm coming from.
Rob
Rob, I understand. This is what has bought my silence. I do hope to be where you are some day but in my case I have made it too easy for my W to just sit there and do nothing. There will come a time when a Choice needs to be made on my Wifes side. And if this choice is in favor of the R then My "silence" was a small price to pay. Thanks for the encouragement of this "long-term" goal.
H
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
