Why wait until after Thanksgiving????? Why should you go through all that for one day that you can be happy with your children and relax, not having to put up a front.
You can make the day good for the kids with out XH, it's up to you. He's not around that much anyway, and you are divorced.
GO DARK!!!!!
You can not control what he does only what you do about it. He is CAKE EATING!!!!! HE is using you because he knows you will be there no matter what he does to you.
He is doing this because he is allowed to. Print everything out. Tell him you have proof that he is still seeing her and talking to her and then drop the rope, LET GO. It is the only thing you can do at this point for you and for him.
Do not call do not answer texts or the phone!!!!!!!!!! Let him know about the text from OW about Sat. If you can print that out do it also. Give him copies so he can't lie about it.
Don't let him give you excuses and suck you in again.
Get a life!!!!! for you.
You are feeding into all his SH**t and he likes it that way because then he doesn't have to grow up.
READ DR again it tells you what you need to do. You are not doing what is needed for you.
START NOW.
JAK
Last edited by jak58; 11/20/0702:40 PM.
You don't get to choose how you're going to die. Or when, you can only decide how you're going to live now. ~Joan Baez
