I would be tempted to help (or push) him along. Perhaps he should move out! Let him have a taste of what separation would be like. I say that but at the same time realize it's hard. But something's gotta give...
I agree with Joie. He's done this before....too many times if I remember. I believe he is just buying time...he doesn't want a D but he doesn't want to or is not strong enough to let go of OW. I think he'll go on like this for months if you let him. Based on my own experience, the IC might just be another way for him to buy time....at least that's what my XH did.
M:28, D finalized: 8/28/07 Current Thread
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