w8ing Hi I have had a few R talks with H over the last 9 months and every time he says the same thing he has been honest with me(bomb)IDLYA in his mind, that honesty lets him off the hook to any proir comittments to me or family and people will/have validated that for him He made the right desicion to leave nothing I have ever said has worked and I dont even think he has heard me(they say MLC's forget conversations anyway) I think it is ok to talk now and again to let them know where we are and to hear what they are thinking I talked to H the other day..He revealed some info to me that was helpful said he was fine being S..not thinking about D so at least i know where he is.was at that moment and that could change You may get something from him that helps or not the next day is usually painful for me good luck oeace
married 14 years H 42 bomb 2/07 IDLYA D final 3 /09 M ow D ow
