Wow does your last post sound familiar. My situation was a bit different in that I had 2 kids to raise while she was out having her fun.

Now that we are back together 100% and hitting on all 8 cylinders, that "stuff" doesn't affect me as much. Sometimes, it was difficult to hear of the things that she had done during our time apart. But, recently after telling about something she did while we apart, she finished by saying that it would have been better if I was there and that just changed it all.


H: 33 (ME)
WAW: 33
S: 10
D: 7
3/17/06 Wife left
10/4/06 D Final
9/30/07 XW states she wants to reconcile
10/7/07 XW starts process of moving back in