Maybe not too complicated to understand

[Dr LOve]

Let's not make this more complicated than it is. Marriage IS boring,

NOV,

What????? "Marriage IS boring"? Marriage is WHAT YOU MAKE IT.
Your life is what you make it. Where in your marriage contract did it mention this?

"Warnning Marriage is boring.Are you sure this is your choice?"

so is being a stay at home mother.

I can't comment on being a "stay at home mom" But I was a single father (3mo & 3yo D's ) for two years. It was anything but boring..Had some of the best times of my life.
I think this is where the saying "he's not heavy he's my brother" comes in.
Belive me if I could go back to that time I would.(except I would not have my son and don't know what I would do without him).

This is not your fault, this is the life that she chose. Basically, it's a BS justiciation.

Ok now we are back on track Yes I agree this is a BS justiciation

Have you exposed the A? Is the OM married or does he have a SO?

sop

Husband