w8ting - I am sorry that you are ging through this. It seems to me that your h is exhbiting typical MLC behaviour if not every single symptom - My h has missed a few too.
Whether to write or not - well it seems to me that he is still deep in the tunnel, but some things do make an impression [although it isn't clear what], and it certainly sets the record straight.
I would go along with it all, but you need someone to whom you can pour your heart out, and who can hug you. We cannot pretend we are alright all of the time. It is OK to rant and weep.
People get back together after divorce, there are also stopped proceedings - look at Holly's thread.
IMO your h is still deep in MLC, and this is going to take a while. Whether you want to go on waiting is up to you, but separation agreements, proceedings and even divorce itself, IN THE MLC context, are sadly not uncommon. But it isn't necessarily over.
