Oh Theo... it sounds like doors are opening and things are looking up for you. Listen to your gut and go for the job that "feels right". Hang in there with everything else.. I sense that changes for the better are coming..
From this over-here-not-living-your-life perspective, it looks okay. Not bad, not fantastic, but moving forward. Patience is the nasty, well-hated word. Very hard to have it.
Keep the road home smooth - I read that advice on this BB over a year ago, but didn't implement. It's crucial.
Forget the former things; do not dwell on the past. See, I am doing a new thing! Is 43:18-19
If it seems slow in coming, wait. It's on its way. It will come right on time. Hab 2:3
Emotionally, I felt I needed a real apology for the affair(remorse/regret) and a re-commitment on her part to the marriage for me to want to stay in it.
From what I've read, it will take time to get an apology or any remorse since the A is still so fresh. And sometimes it never comes at all. But I am with you, I need it, too.
Regarding the job decision ... listen to your heart. If you think you don't have the drive for the one job, I would not take it. If you get offered the other 2 jobs, I'd request a second interview. Get a better feel for each one. That's what I did when I changed jobs 2 years ago (after 10 years in the same place).
gotta take the kids to school; will be back after boatloads of errands on this day off to try to elaborate.
In the meantime, have you looked up Grasshopper's old threads? OMGosh, the man was brilliant & strong in the midst of a living hell (W having A while still at home), and turned his M around. He doesn't post anymore and I sure do miss him; very well thought out, and long involved posts.
Forget the former things; do not dwell on the past. See, I am doing a new thing! Is 43:18-19
If it seems slow in coming, wait. It's on its way. It will come right on time. Hab 2:3
