You seem to be doing things right. There is no apology for being in love. Attraction is not a choice. She may feel the same way. Who knows.
Yes, we do seek certain personality types. I have looked back at my life and that has been a blessing and a problem.
I am now asking myself what the positives and negatives are of the type of women I like. Next time, I will take a hard look at the negatives up front b/c those ultimately kill a R.
