I'll have to think about talking to him since I seem to be programmed on the NO R TALKS mentality. I am afraid that I would have some expectation from him which would make the talk a disaster.
And since he is "banging his biscuit" as my friend likes to say, I'm not sure that it will do any good...especially since they are in that "butterflies in the stomach" phase that he wants so much now. I don't know that my talk can compete with that right now.....
And finally...I just don't know that I am that strong. I mean to put myself out there and say that I still love you and do not want a divorce from you, knowing that he is in a new relationship and loving it...and can't seem to get away from me fast enough.... Do I want to put myself through that?
If he is in a MLC, wouldn't it be like talking to a brick wall?