CF, reading your post I realize that when things are relaxed and chill with your W...things take an upswing. You cannot let the little things carry so much weight. Her trips, no calls, acting odd or distant...these are all a part of the process babe .
Keep it up and don't get discouraged, simply go on and take care of you. Have a Happy Thanksgiving, you and all of my friends in here are in my thoughts, ALWAYS!!!