W8ing, I am so sorry for the day you had today. It does seem that they tend to get nastier around holidays and important personal days.
Do not sign a single thing until you have an atty look at it. That is where I am too and it makes them mad as hell, but to freaking bad! You have to look out for your kids and yourself.
I agree with Upside Down, if your H doesn't know you want your M and family back what do you have to lose by telling him? Just make sure you don't expect telling him to change his mind. Do it for you. So you KNOW he understands you don't want any of this.
