What my H knows is that I am against divorce in principle. You are right, Up, I have not told him....I don't think.
I do clearly remember sitting in the MC office and being asked what do you want to happen. I said that I wanted to stay married to H. He didn't answer.
But you are right and I have wondered if I should tell him, fight a little harder for my M. I feel like I am not fighting at all for it and I wonder if he thinks that I am okay with everything.
But then I think that if he is in a MLC, does it matter what I want or think....or even if he knows what I want or think? What would the point be to tell him. Just to go on record?
I would appreciate any advice from anyone on how to handle this. Have I been too calm, cool and collected?
