Does your H know that you don't want the D? It sounds like you have been so calm, cool and collected in front of him from the beginning...maybe he doesn't think any of this is a big deal to you.
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I want to confront him. I want to tell him what he is doing to me.....to us....to our family. I keep thinking that he needs a slap in the face and that he needs to get real. It would also be a 180 for me as I was not confrontational in our marriage.
But I won't. I do know that it will get me nowhere.
I am not sure it is a bad idea to let him know that you want your M, your family. What would you have to lose?
